"Hey Melzie, I have some pants I can send you. They absolutely swim on me, so I bet they would fit you."
"Hey Melzie, You're a big, fat, lard @ss. I'm eating 600 calories a day and have lost a gajillion pounds. Here is some charity for your big butt and gut."
(Do not be confused, I love charity & sharing & passing on clothes. However, I'll be dead if I pull these pants over my feet and up to my butt.)